Saturday, November 7, 2009

When Life Doesn't Go Your Way

The past few months, I've grown more and more tired of sports. For the longest time, I couldn't figure out why. Then, today it hit me while I was at my university's football game. We were ranked #1 in Division 2 before today's game. We were all pumped up about this game, expecting to win. Then it happened...we lost. Everyone was frustrated, horns were blowing all over the "big" city of Florence, AL. Everyone was upset.

Two hours before, everyone was doing well. Both of Alabama's Division I teams had won, so everyone in Florence had no reason to be upset, right? Actually, that is correct. Even now, no one has a reason to be upset, especially those who did not play in the game and those who do not play football on the team. We were out nothing except possibly the title, but the players are now out the Championship Ring. Yet, we are letting our life be controlled by something we can't control, and our happiness is based on something we can't control. Happiness shouldn't be based on something like that. Otherwise, you are setting yourself up for failure. I, too, was upset. Then I realized this, and everything fell back in place.

There are more important things to life than whether or not your teams win. They are not your teams anyways, so to let your life be controlled by their games' outcomes makes no sense at all. Instead, let your life be controlled by the one thing in life you can control: your eternal destination. Unfortunately, only you can make this decision for yourself, and if you don't know your eternal destination, then everything you do in life will be in vain. It doesn't matter how many hours you spend doing community service, how many awards you win, or how many people like you. It depends on if you own the key to Heaven, which is having a relationship with Jesus Christ. If you want to enter a house but don't have a key, would the owners let you in if you mowed their lawn? Probably not! Doing community service or living life the way you think is the best will not help you. You must play by the rules and humble yourself before God. That is the first step to success--humility is the way Jesus came into the Earth and left the Earth, and it is the only way we can possibly obtain true happiness, by doing the Will of God. The only way to know the Will of God is through a good relationship with Him, and the only way to a good relationship with God is by humbly submitting to Him and confessing that you have done wrong. If you haven't done that, then you can't have unwavering happiness. Anything and everything else will fade, but His happiness lasts forever. If you want to know more, contact me.